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The Weekend Read ✨Your Hair - Cut, Colour & Going Grey

March 08, 2025

The Weekend Read ✨Your Hair - Cut, Colour & Going Grey

Jenny Goldsmith | Read in about 11 minutes

Hello!

Your hair is your ultimate style statement. It's one of the first things people notice about you—it frames your face, reflects your personality, and, whether we like it or not, can shape how we’re perceived. It’s an extension of your style, and just like your wardrobe, it should work for you, not against you. Yet, how often do we truly think about our hair in the same way we think about our clothes?

When you come for a House of Colour analysis, you’ll leave with a palette of colours that make your skin glow, your eyes sparkle, and your confidence soar. But what about your hair? If the wrong clothing colour can drain you, imagine what the wrong hair colour can do! The right hair tone, cut, and care routine will elevate your look, ensuring every part of your image is in harmony.

The Journey of Your Hair

Over the years, our hair goes through a journey of its own—changing in texture, density, and, of course, colour. It’s affected by hormones, stress, lifestyle, and even the climate. Some people find their hair becomes finer with age, while others experience new waves or curls appearing seemingly out of nowhere. Embracing these changes and working with them, rather than against them, is key.

And then there’s going grey—a topic that sparks strong reactions. Some women embrace it, others resist it, and many are unsure where they stand. Grey is found in all seasonal colour palettes, being both warm and cool depending on the undertones. The good news? There are ways to make grey work beautifully within your palette and suit your skintone.

The Weekend Read ✨Your Hair - Cut, Colour & Going Grey

Hair Colour: Getting It Right for You

Just as wearing the wrong colours can leave you looking washed out, the wrong hair colour can do the same. A rich, warm brunette may suddenly look tired if they go for an ashy blonde, while a cool, icy blonde can lose their radiance with golden caramel tones.

Considering Hair Colour in Your Palette:

Winters & Summers (Cool Tones): If you have naturally cool skin tones, you’ll find cool-toned greys, icy blondes, ash browns, and even platinum work beautifully on you. Silver hair can look striking, especially when paired with your best jewel tones.

Springs & Autumns (Warm Tones): Warm blondes, rich coppers, chocolate browns, and golden tones will enhance your natural glow. If you’re going grey and find it’s washing you out, consider soft highlights or lowlights in warm shades, or balance the coolness by leaning into your bolder, warmer wardrobe colours.

If you've had your colours analysed, use your House of Colour fan to find your best hair shades amongst the neutral and basic colours from your seasonal palette.

A Professional Perspective: The Power of the Right Cut and Colour

"In my industry, first impressions matter. I need to look polished but not overdone, confident but not severe. I used to play it safe with my hair—neutral tones, a standard cut—but after my House of Colour analysis, I realised I wasn’t making the most of my natural colouring.

Now, my cool brunette shade with soft lowlights enhances my skin tone, making me look fresh and energised. I’ve also upgraded my cut — it's elegant and manageable, and shows my Romantic Classic personality, elevating my professional wardrobe perfectly. Since making the change, I've had colleagues and even clients comment on how put-together I look — like I truly own my space in the boardroom. The confidence boost is priceless."

— Sophie, 42, Corporate Executive

The Right Cut: Personality & Face Shape

The shape, texture, and cut of your hair can either enhance your style or work against it. If you’ve ever had a haircut that felt ‘off,’ it might be because it clashed with your personality - who you are on the inside.

Matching Hair to Your Clothing Personality:

Dramatics: Sharp angles, structured bobs, bold colours — think Tilda Swinton.

Classics: Polished, timeless styles, neatly shaped — think Kate Middleton.

Naturals: Low-maintenance, soft layers, longer lengths — think Jennifer Aniston

Gamines: Pixie cuts, short bobs, playful fringes — think Audrey Hepburn

Ingenues: Styles with movement that create a soft frame for your face - think Keira Knightly

Romantics: Glossy hair either with movement and layers, or swept into a glamorous updo. Mid to longer lengths — think Holly Willoughby

Considering Face Shape:

Round Faces: Longer layers, side parts, or soft waves add structure.

Square Faces: Soft, feathery layers help balance strong jawlines.

Heart-Shaped Faces: Side-swept fringes and chin-length cuts add balance.

Oval Faces: Lucky you—most styles suit you!

A Modern Mum’s Story: Finding a Haircut That Works for Her Life

"After having my second child, my long hair became another thing on my never-ending to-do list. I barely had time to brush it, let alone style it, and every morning was a battle between wrestling my toddler into their clothes and attempting to look half-presentable on the school run. I needed something practical but still me.

After my House of Colour style session, I realised I could embrace a look that actually worked for my lifestyle. I opted for a textured, shoulder-length bob —long enough to still feel feminine but short enough to look effortlessly styled. It air-dries well, works with my natural waves, and suits my ‘Natural’ clothing personality. Plus, I can dress it up when needed with soft waves or a sleek finish. The best part? I finally feel put together without spending an hour in the bathroom!"

— Emma, 34, Busy Mum of Two

The Grey Hair Journey: What to Expect

Hair turns grey due to the loss of melanin, and this process happens at different rates for everyone — genetics play a huge role. Some women see their first greys in their twenties, while others don’t notice a significant change until their fifties.

But did you know not all greys are the same? Some people go white, silvery-white, salt and pepper or steely grey. Some find their hair turns a warmer, almost taupe shade before settling into its final colour.

If your hair has turned grey but doesn’t seem to match your undertones, here’s what you can do:

Enhance your natural greys with a toner that removes brassiness or a silver shampoo to keep it fresh.

Use contrast in your outfits—if you’re warm-toned, surround your hair with your brighter, bolder colours (think Autumn’s Kingfisher or Spring’s Coral) to offset the coolness.

If you’re cool-toned, rock the grey! Cool-toned greys, blues, and pinks in your wardrobe will complement your silver strands perfectly.

Celebrities Who Make Grey Work:

Helen Mirren (Cool tones) – Her icy silver hair is complemented by jewel tones and cool pastels.

Dawn French (Cool tones) – Her steel grey shade works beautifully with her brown eyes and vivid tones.

Andie MacDowell (Warm tones) – Her salt-and-pepper waves are warmed up with rich browns and vibrant colours.

Jodie Foster (Warm tones) - Her auburn colour is starting to make way for the grey strands that frame her face now.

A Client’s Grey Hair Journey: From Doubt to Confidence

When Sarah first noticed her grey roots coming through, she felt an instant wave of panic.

"I wasn’t ready. I thought grey hair meant giving up, looking older, fading into the background. I’d been dyeing my hair for years, trying to hold onto the brunette shade that had always been part of my identity. But the upkeep was exhausting—every few weeks, I’d be back at the hairdressers, watching my natural, silver strands disappear under yet another layer of colour."

Sarah worried about how people would perceive her — would she be seen as ‘letting herself go’? Would her grey hair make her look tired or washed out? Would it suit her at all?

"I almost felt like I was losing a part of myself, but at the same time, I was tired of the maintenance. My hair was becoming more fragile, and I started questioning who I was really doing this for — myself or other people?"

After a long debate with herself (and a lot of Pinterest scrolling), Sarah decided to take the plunge. With my help, she learned how to embrace her warm, silver tones and adjust her wardrobe to keep her look fresh and vibrant.

"The key wasn’t just going grey — it was making sure the rest of my style worked with it. I realised I needed stronger colours near my face—my vibrant shades, warm blues, and my best reds. Suddenly, instead of looking washed out, I looked alive!"

To her surprise, the compliments started rolling in. "Friends told me I looked younger. My eyes stood out more, my skin looked fresher, and people kept asking me if I’d had a facial! Strangers even stopped me to say how much they loved my hair. The biggest shift wasn’t just external, though—it was how I felt inside. For the first time in years, I felt authentic. This was me, and I loved it."

Now, Sarah proudly embraces her natural silver strands and waves that complement her face shape, using the right styling products to keep her hair looking soft and bouncy.

"Going grey wasn’t about aging — it was about owning my look and feeling empowered. I wish I’d done it sooner!"

Her advice to others considering the transition? "Don’t fear it—work with it. Make sure your wardrobe supports you, get a great haircut, and embrace the change with confidence. It’s freeing, and honestly, I’ve never felt better."

Sarah’s story is a powerful reminder that grey hair doesn’t mean fading away —it’s simply a new chapter in your style journey. And when paired with the right colours and confidence, it can be absolutely stunning.

Looking After Your Hair: Health First

While we all love a good hairdressers visit, it’s important to remember that over-processing with heat or chemicals can lead to brittle, lifeless locks. If you colour your hair, protect its health with:

Gentle, sulphate-free shampoos to maintain moisture.

Olaplex or bond-building treatments to keep dyed or highlighted hair strong.

Silk pillowcases to reduce breakage and frizz.

An exfoliating shampoo to remove product build up and a massaging tool to stimulate blood flow, because healthy hair starts at the roots.

If you’re considering transitioning to grey, try blending techniques like babylights or balayage first. This softens the regrowth and makes the transition feel more intentional.

Final Thoughts: Your Hair, Your Rules

Your hair is your crowning glory — the finishing touch to your look and a major player in your personal style. Whether you embrace the grey, stick to your natural shade, or experiment with new cuts or colours, the key is to make choices that align with you.

So, next time you’re in front of the mirror, ask yourself: Is my hair working for me, or am I working around it? If it’s the latter, it might be time for a change!

What’s your relationship with your hair? Do you love it, or are you ready to mix things up? Let’s keep the conversation going!

Enjoy your weekend! Next week, The Weekend Read is all about Accessories - Small Changes, Big Impact. Look out for that next Saturday!

Best wishes,

Jenny & Judi x